In Other News, Water Is Wet

Not so big surprise: people who have sex for fun enjoy it more than people who do it to prove something or for a living.

New Desire Lab Question: Lust in Long-Term Relationships

Do monogamous women really lose desire quicker than men?

My Fantasy Lovers Say Things To Me I'd Never Tolerate In Real Life

In reality I'm too aware of being a black woman to stand for such degradation.

We Act Out Rape. And Then We Snuggle.

It's my way of conquering a learned fear of men.

Fear of Fantasy

Thinking through a reader's statement: "I consciously avoid fantasizing about things I would never want to happen in real life."

Themes of Violence in Replies So Far

How to think about rape fantasy.

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