Breast-feeding Wars Round 256

Today's New York Times hosts a bloggingheads debate on breast-feeding between me and Dr. Ruth Lawrence, a researcher from from the University of Rochester and a major breast-feeding advocate. The occasion was my recent Atlantic story taking issue with the science behind some breast-feeding research. When bloggingheads found my opponent I swallowed hard. Dr. Lawrence is a longtime advocate of breast-feeding and wrote the textbook for physicians on the subject. She is also affiliated with the United States Breast-feeding Committee, which organized a letter-writing campaign that brought in nearly 1,000 complaint letters to the Atlantic about my story. I got out my sword, put on my shield, etc.

 

 

 

 

Of course it turned out she was a lovely person with a thing or two to teach my generation. I was going on and on, complaining about how hard it was for us Gen X mommies, with kids and work and gourmet dinners to cook. Then Dr. Lawrence let out a bit of personal information she said she normally doesn't reveal. She has nine children. She breast-fed them all, while working as a full time physician and researcher. So much for my "balance" issues.

Tags: breast-feeding

Hanna Rosin Double X co- editor, reporter, prefer my friends live.

Comments

Breast Feeding Committee

By: missmarple | Thu, 05/14/2009 - 10:03

So I assume she is working tirelessly to help people continue breastfeeding? 6 month instead of 6 week maternity leave? A private office for everyone and (paid) time out from work to pump for everyone, including waitresses and blue collar workers, people on shift work? Being a researcher is actually an ideal job for breastfeeding.

One person being able to breast feed nine children and work at the same time helps exactly noone. It just generates more guilt- why can't I do that, too? I'm so tired of Mommy guilt and Mommy competitiveness.

I actually don't think your article bashed breastfeeding that much at all. You just brought it into the real world, and made some of us that had to stop breastfeeding for uncontrollable reasons feel not quite as bad about it.

I also think you did an excellent job highlighting the difficulities of breastfeeding that are not discussed- that it puts all the burden on the mother, that it keeps the mother home with the children, etc.