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My sister works in L.A. as a TV writer—a notoriously competitive, jealous, back-biting industry. A few years ago, one of her friends won an Oscar for screenwriting. I called her and asked, "Do you have the funny feeling?" The "funny feeling" is the term I use to describe the uncomfortable feeling you get when a friend or peer scores a big success. You feel happy for that person, but also envious, insecure, and anxious about your own success.
She answered, "Maybe a little bit, but I remind myself that people succeed in groups. It's great for him, and it's also good for me."
What do you think? Is it true that people succeed in groups—so that the success of a friend is likely to help you succeed? (Whether or true or not, it's a thought that makes it much easier to feel magnanimous about a friend's success.)
Photograph of people celebrating victory by Pinnacle Pictures/Digital Vision/Getty Images.
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